Friday, August 28, 2009

A Man of Means

In a hurry, Jacoby presses the button signaling the elevator down as he slings his three button jacket across his shoulders while checking the status of his cross country flight from his phone. Quickly losing the signal as the elevator doors close, Jacoby slides the ultra sleek, do it all device into his right pant pocket. Having a few moments of pause descending from the 59th floor, Jacoby scanned the small chamber looking to make small talk.

Jacoby Allen Kincaid was a pro at working a crowd. Jacoby is to rapport building as Twain is to Americana. The ability to find something in common with those he met was his speciality. Meeting people was an exercise of networking, a regimen where strangers do not exist and fatigue never comes. Thus his ascent to the high rise of success as an executive in the advertising business. A man of messages with a circle of influence unlike any who has shared his name.


The elevator lunges downward as Jacoby notices the man standing next to him in a pair of black, single strap Sergio Rossi's. This Italian shoe maker was a customer, and a good one, committing significant sums to high gloss, upscale magazine ads and a championship tennis sponsorship.


"Hey, nice shoes," Jacoby insists, turning his shoulders squarely toward the man.


Put off by the random compliment, the man stretches a smile and nods.


"My name is Kincaid and I work upstairs. Love to get your opinion on those shoes for an ad campaign my team is developing."


"Listen, I'm late for a meeting," the man responds, obviously annoyed with friendly chatter. He straightens his tie and tunnels his stare into the mirrored elevator doors shutting down any indication of his interest to talk.


Jacoby leans forward and in a confident tone says, "No problem, we can meet for lunch next week." Reaching into his jacket pocket, Jacoby grabs a card and steps forward presenting it to the man in the fancy shoes. "If you're not happy with the comfort or look of the pair your wearing", clinching his jaw with inquisitive eyes, "tell me and I'll ensure your complete satisfaction."


Sensing something for nothing, the man takes his hand out of his pocket, accepts the card and smiles. "Yea, how about I call you next week?"


"I'll look forward to it," says Jacoby reaching to shake his hand.


As the handshake consummated the business exchange the bell toned and the doors to the 23rd floor opened. The fancy shoe man, who suddenly felt empowered, exited as others rushed onto the platform.

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Boney Fingers

Recently I was re-introduced to a song while listening to my XM radio (channel 10, The Roadhouse) and was captivated by the lyrics. A requisite for good music is good lyrics. In my opinion, lyrics create good songs; the tune compliments and makes the lyrics relevant. Anyway, the song I heard was titled Boney Fingers sung by Hoyt Axton and Renee Armand. I am fixated on this song because it reminds me of some of my thinking on legacy and how hard work is not necessarily a preamble to success. Don't get me wrong, I am not endorsing a weak work ethic or even do-nothing laziness. Hard work is a good thing and a trait that ought to be exercised by each of us. I am just saying that hard work is not the primary ingredient for success. I have written about this in the context of legacy and generational blessing, of which you can find in the archives under the tags "life" and "search for contentment". Since I have referenced the song I might as well just post the lyrics. I recommend finding a copy from your favorite music source for personal enjoyment.

Boney Fingers
songwriters: Axton, Armand
See the rain comin' down and the roof won't hold 'er
Lost my job and I feel a little older
Car won't run and our love's grown colder
But maybe things'll get a little better, in the mornin'
Maybe things'll get a little better
Oh! the clothes need washin' and the fire won't start
Kids all cryin' and you're breakin' my heart
Whole darn place is fallin' apart
Maybe things'll get a little better, in the mornin'
Maybe things'll get a little better
Work your fingers to the bone - whadda get?
Boney fingers - boney fing-gers
Yeah I've been broke as long as I remember
Get a little money and I gotta run and spend 'er
When I try to save it, pretty woman come and take it
Sayin' maybe things'll get a litte better, in the mornin'
Maybe things'll get a little better
Work your fingers to the bone - whadda get?
Boney fingers - boney fing-gers
Yeah the grass won't grow and the sun's too hot
The whole darn world is goin' to pot
Might as well like it 'cause you're all that I've got
But, maybe things'll get a little better, in the mornin'
Maybe things'll get a little better
Work your fingers to the bone - whadda get?
Boney fingers - boney fing-gers

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

The Tenth Commandment

This weekend at VCC Dave Workman finished the Summer of Love teaching series with a message that reflects the essence of the tenth commandment; the commandment being "You shall not covet" and the message being "Love Contentment". You should hear for yourself using the video link here. My purpose here is to reflect on what I heard because I have questions, of course.

I struggle with contentment; seemingly always have, and the subtitle of this blog suggests that someday I hope to overcome this apparent void in my life. My primary question as it relates to contentment in the circumstances of life has to do with God's will and his use of restlessness to communicate a change of scenery or a directive to travel a different path. Is it possible to be unnecessarily struggling with circumstances trying to find joy when the Holy Spirit is in fact using the un-joy to say "This is not for you or not for now"? Simply put, is it acceptable to covet contentment all the while searching for that satisfaction of being and doing exactly what God wants? Maybe it is not so simple. The message was good and timely considering my current feelings of restlessness. I just wonder if in the process of trying to keep the tenth commandment one could miss a message from God.

Questions that I do not have answers to often complicates the process. The redeeming factor in all of the wrestling, depression, doubt and fear is that it is better than the alternative. That alternative is to be clueless; rambling on in a wandering, dead end path without any knowledge and with much naivety. Being satisfied with second best and unfulfilled in purpose is a terrible thought. The intense struggle of finding those specifics seem like a high price to pay. I think I have worked myself up to the point that loving contentment seems much harder than not coveting. Something tells me that although Dave did not outright say that to love contentment is harder maybe the truth of the teaching is that exactly. This commandment, in truth, maybe about more than not desiring something that I do not have, but rather (or additionally) to love what I do have.

I will let you know if I figure anything out. Meanwhile, watch the video and comment your own take.